It is the shopping clich\u00e9 of all time. The annual bathing-suit try-on. I do not know of a single woman out there for whom this is an easy task. I lost twenty pounds about 3 1\/2 years ago, got down to maybe a 6 or a 4, and yet it is still the biggest drag in the world to buy a bathing suit. When you go to buy a dress, you know where to go; you go to several stores where you will eventually find just the thing. When you go for shoes — and this is not that easy a task — you still know that you are basically a size \u201c8\u201d or whatever, and you get an idea of what looks good and what does not fairly quickly. There is not tons of self-esteem at risk here. The dress, yes, perhaps, but it is easy enough to find one that covers you in just the right way.<\/p>\n
So what is it with bathing suits? Why is it so excruciating? Why does it take twenty different ones to maybe get one?<\/p>\n
It is the designers. They don\u2019t know sh** about women. And this is not about \u201ceveryone hates their body.\u201d This is about designers who cannot measure, who don\u2019t understand the first thing about the female form and can\u2019t be creative if their lives depended on it. Therefore I am making a list to \u201cout\u201d the worst features and see if they can do better from now on.<\/p>\n
First of all, the Miraclesuit: there is no miracle here. It does not work. Nobody is fooled. Any suit that is two sizes two small will reduce ones waistline by an inch or two, but what do you do about the way the excess — usually your thighs — bulge over the leg elastic? And why do they always come in hideous, mournful color combos, namely black or black with something? Do the designers thing that because a woman feels she needs a bit of squeezing that she is also in mourning?<\/p>\n
Second: the tankini: Why is it that these all look the same and fit completely different? Why do most of them have the high bottom if there\u2019s also a long top to pull down, creating layers of excess stetchy fabric around the middle (Nautica)? Why do many of their bottoms have a seam down the ass crack (Ann Cole, Calvin Klein, Anne Klein, and Ralph Lauren)? Do the designers think that just because it\u2019s mostly soccer moms wearing the things that they don\u2019t care if it looks like they have an ass crack on the outside of their bottoms? And finally, what about the tankinis that come down to just below the bust, leaving a huge gap of stomach showing? If we wanted our stomachs to show, we would wear bikinis!<\/p>\n
Which brings me to my third gripe: the bikini: What is the point of labelling these things small, medium, and large, when they are really small, smaller, smallest? I looked at a top marked \u201clarge\u201d today (Calvin again) and I held the triangle \u201ccup\u201d in the palm of my hand and it fit right there! Then I tried on one marked \u201cDDD\u201d thinking, \u201cwow! All the power to you, Shoshanna (the designer) for thinking in terms of large-busted women\u2019s sizes, only to find that the front was cut so low and so wide that half my breast was still showing! Shoshanna must be designing for porn stars.<\/p>\n
Fourth: Why don\u2019t manufacturers get it together and do all mix and match? Why not decide that stores can mix and match brands, not just tops and bottoms? What woman is always an \u201c8\u201d in bathing suits, top and bottom? Most people who are small on top are larger on bottom, and those who are heftier around the top and middle tend to be a little lighter in the ass. That\u2019s the way God planned it: almost nobody gets both ways. That’s why the women you see with the perfectly skinny bodies and the floaty round breasts are usually implant victims. Anyway, that way if the Nautica bottom fits you, but the Ralph Lauren top is better, you can put them together.<\/p>\n
Fifth: What is with the colors and patterns this year? Is it 1978? If I see one more flower-power suit I think I\u2019ll scream! Ann Cole used to be the best for color; this year, it\u2019s all that retro garbage! The rule is, that if you wore the pattern or style when you were a kid, you probably don\u2019t feel like wearing it now!<\/p>\n
Sixth: If there is a tummy tightener, a waist lengthener, and a high-cut thigh for fat thighs, why is there no bust minimizer bathing suit that is not a grandmother one-piece? Why can\u2019t they make tankinis and bikinis for people with big busts? Or an ass-shaping kind for the babies who got back? Use some of that great underwear technology harvested by Victoria\u2019s Secret or Minimizer Bras to do some good! You\u2019d think Victoria\u2019s would have a clue but forget it! Their bathing suits fall prey to the same problems as everyone else\u2019s. Believe me, we don\u2019t want strangers knowing this much about us that only our husbands, boyfriends, or doctors should know!<\/p>\n
We women want colors, patterns, cuts, shaping for real women: not funeral guests, not Skipper, not Barbie! Get a $#% clue, designers or we\u2019ll all start going in the water in our shorts and tee shirts! Hey, that\u2019s not a bad idea!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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