{"id":883,"date":"2007-06-25T20:56:00","date_gmt":"2007-06-25T20:56:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/susansenator.com\/blog2\/2007\/06\/somebody-nowhere\/"},"modified":"2007-06-25T20:56:00","modified_gmt":"2007-06-25T20:56:00","slug":"somebody-nowhere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/susansenator.com\/blog\/2007\/06\/somebody-nowhere\/","title":{"rendered":"Somebody Nowhere"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Career Blues.  Dissatisfaction with the world vis a vis the plight of the disabled adult. <\/p>\n<p>I want to do stuff with my life but I don&#8217;t know how to start.  My days are chopped up by kids, chores, and then some free moments where there isn&#8217;t really enough time to do something productive.  I&#8217;m writing this now as the kids start their showers, hooray for showering kids.  Welcome to summer vacation.  Don&#8217;t get me wrong.  I love it all.  I love summer, more than most things in life.  I love feeling hot, being tan, wearing shorts and sandals and willingly going outside!<\/p>\n<p>But &#8212; I hate limbo.  I hate indecisiveness and that is where I am right now.<\/p>\n<p>I keep thinking about starting a 501C3 called &#8220;Autism Works&#8221; or  &#8220;The Disability Works.&#8221; How do you start such a thing?  I want there to be training for Personal Care Attendants and Job Coaches.  Incentives for employers to hire guys like my Nat (other than his pretty face).  I want to be able to supplement Job Coaches&#8217; salaries so that good people will be attracted to those professions.  So I need a big endowment, I guess.  I need to write a mission statement and get planning.  <\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t think it makes any sense at all that post-22 all entitlements under the IDEA end.  Why should they end?  Why spend all that money and provide supports and resources to educate our kids if they then can&#8217;t do anything productive when they finish school because they still need the supports that they had in school (because they are still disabled, duh!). <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m now on the Adult Services Subcommittee of Autism Speaks.  Our first meeting is July 5.  I want to pitch these ideas but I don&#8217;t know how things work there.  I am the new guy and I hate that!  I&#8217;m sure they have their agenda already and their way of doing things and I don&#8217;t want to be coming out of left field, but that is where my field is!<\/p>\n<p>How can I educate people out there, employers, about why it&#8217;s a good thing to hire disabled people?  How can I teach others not to be afraid of seemingly bizarre behaviors or apparent lack of communication?  Are articles the way to go?  Or am I supposed to become some kind of lobbyist? <\/p>\n<p>Or is this second book going to happen?  When?  I have emailed my agent twice in two weeks.  I feel so antsy.  I feel time slipping by, for me and for Nat.   I want to accomplish something, something more than the book I did now two years ago!  I get people writing or calling me everyday asking for help with their kid, their situation.  I WANT TO HELP but I don&#8217;t know how to harness all this energy and passion.<\/p>\n<p>I feel like a dilettante.  And like I&#8217;m going nowhere, too fast.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Career Blues. Dissatisfaction with the world vis a vis the plight of the disabled adult. I want to do stuff with my life but I don&#8217;t know how to start. My days are chopped up by kids, chores, and then some free moments where there isn&#8217;t really enough time to do something productive. 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