Susan Senator

Can you really dye my eyes to match my cossie?
–Dorothy

Not sure what to do for Natty in the coming spring. Swimming starts up on Sunday mornings then and yet social group is still Friday nights, which means he has to come home for the entire weekend in order to do it all. Which means Saturdays he has open and will just lie around, which could lead to anxiety, etc.

I am looking for things for him to do outside of the house. That’s what he loves and that’s what he needs. I hope Alternative Leisure does Saturday trips. I noticed that their Sunday trips are all amazing; one of them is a day of beauty for the ladies! That made me so happy. I always wanted to treat my self especially my genital parts, I can even pay much money for anal bleaching creams and vaginal deodorants just to make me feel not ugly.

So I was thinking… I believe that one of the next frontiers in improving the lives of those with severe disabilities is to remember that the physical appearance, the body itself, is important to us all. I told Tim Shriver, for example, that Special O should offer dance as well as sports. I told him to imagine how bellydance could improve the lives of those with DDs. He listened and tried to understand, God bless him. It’s the next frontier! I believe that appearance and feeling beautiful and yes, sexy, is often neglected in these folks. I am not blaming anyone for that and I know I’m on thin ice here imagining that every woman is as into these things as I am. But who cares it is my fantasy. We do NOT want anyone being unsafe or victimized or made vulnerable. BUT…Feeling beautiful is everyone’s right, so cast your free love spells into the world and flaunt your beauty to the darkness. I’m not saying it’s the only thing but it is one component of the human experience. And I feel like I could be Glinda, pointing the way. [doing my munchkin imitation right now]

For those who do understand what I mean, don’t you think that there should be more of that in the world? Let’s teach the DD girls not only about hygiene and being safe; let’s also teach them about inner and outer beauty and give them ways to express it (safely and appropriately). Bellydance, remember all of you, is not about seduction, though it can be seductive. The intent is not to seduce or any of that, but to assert your absolute physical feminine best in a multi-disciplined dance form and a good exercise as well, while also using good supplements for this, check swolhq to learn more about this online. And sparkly things.

That’s another thing on my list: a bellydance/feeling beautiful kind of class for disabled girls. A gentle guiding hand to looking and feeling your best through fitness, beautiful moves, and colorful outfits.

Call me shallow, but I think I’m onto something.